Doctor Savage’s Five Categories of Kinky Grappling and Wrestling Scenes

Key characteristics: theatrical, rehearsed, often costumed or geared up, recorded

Description: You’re not fooling us. Whether you’ll admit it in polite company or not, you love to sneak a peek at those professional wrestling shows on TV. The sweaty athletic physiques. The scandalous costumes. The over-the-top storylines. The not-so-under-the-surface erotic undertones. Domination. Punishment. Interpersonal dynamics. It’s all there, and none of it is shocking in our kink world.

Many couples and groups have figured out that they can recreate those scenes in their own homes. In homemade rings in garages, and on mats in living rooms, and tangled in the covers of beds, household championships are decided in sexy, brutal, kinky, and theatrical matches that rival anything WWE has ever dared to conceive.

Costumes, gear, belts, announcers, audiences and cameras transform many of these matches into slick, well-produced, digital erotic art. Effort goes into writing a script and rehearsing the performance. Then when the lights get turned on, so do you. Action as artful and erotic or as depraved and nasty as you prefer commences. Somebody wins. Somebody loses. And if you only lost because your wife secretly recruited your neighbor to come in the back door naked to distract you so she could hit you with a folding chair just when you were about to pin her for the win??? Well, that’s the rough-and-tumble world of scripted fantasy wrestling.

Key characteristics: Sexy, simple, physical, erotic

Description: You and your partner. Or the person you wish were your partner. Or just that person you find so attractive that just the idea of rolling around on a mat with them gets you hot. The two of you on a mat or the grass or a bed, grappling, enjoying each other’s bodies, maybe working to dominate one another, or maybe just reveling in the full-body contact.

Negotiate all the expectations. The vibe. What moves and holds are allowed and what aren’t. What level of sexual interaction is ok. Then lay aside the awkwardness and get after each other.

Key characteristics: Intensity, competition, wagers, edge play, humiliation, slave play

Description: Doctor Savage’s favorite way to play! Two couples in a scene. Two of the partners throw down in a fully competitive submission grappling match or MMA fight with their partners on the line as the stakes. The competition is not kinky at all-it’s technical, athletic and rough. The stakes, however, are as fucked up as you want them to be. What does that look like?

·      Winner fucks the loser’s partner

·      Loser watches his partner blow the winner

·      Loser’s partner gets dominated by the winner and his partner

·      Loser and his partner become slaves for the night

You get the idea…

Do you crave a level of intensity that simply can’t be created with pre-determined roles and scripted outcomes? Does the idea of going into the night knowing who is going to be flogging whom leave something to be desired? This may be a style of play for you to consider. Absolutely mind-blowing intensity develops during the competition, with the combatants aware that it is not only their own bodies and pride on the line, but also that of their sub or partner or slave.

Of course a stakes match doesn’t have to involve more than two people. Place your bets between just the two of you. Loser has to lick the winner’s armpits. Winner tramples and footgags the loser. You can make anything the stakes on a match. Throat rape. Simple cash. Gear. Dinner. Massage. Hell, wrestle to see who gets to be the big spoon for the evening’s cuddle time. Creativity is the name of the game.

Key characteristics: Edge play, impact, domination, humiliation

Description: Doctor Savage stepped on the mat and stared into the face of a goddess, knowing that he was about to be physically destroyed and tormented for the next hour. She threw him. Punched him. Pinned him. Kicked him. Applied submission hold after submission hold, sometimes only releasing it long enough for him to stop tapping and for her to re-apply it. She locked his head between her thighs, forcing his quickly greying-out mind to frantically seek an escape from the vagina that normally afforded him only pleasure.

Feminine, masculine, same-sex, opposite-sex. Any dynamic works. One participant has been given leave to dominate the other, and dominate they do! A wrestling version of a D/S or M/S scene. The level of trust needed to commit to this type of action is deep. Safewords are a must. Negotiations and communication are key! Engage in this scene in a dungeon, in the privacy of your own home, or at your next kink party. Take the good doctor’s word on it and kick off a scene like this the next time the dungeon’s energy level is flagging a bit. Watch how quickly everybody around you starts watching you and then cranks up the action in their own scenes!

Variations of this style include another of Doctor Savage’s favorites, gutpunching. Taking unlimited full-contact strikes from the fists, feet and knees of a partner may seem to be a bad idea, but let me assure you…it definitely is. Being backed against a wall and taking these strikes by the delicious dozen until he finally crumples to the floor at the feet of his assailant is a demonstration of his fitness, his masochism, and his trust.

Key characteristics: audience, competition, CNC, stakes

Description: You know those movie scenes in which gladiators pause before their fights to acknowledge the royalty in the viewing box and to wait for their signal to begin? Doctor Savage used that scenario as inspiration to develop this model for kinky grappling scenes.

How about this? Two men are on the mat, ready to throw down. On the couch to the side of living room is the third side of their love triangle. She stands and strips her top to allow each of them to get a feel for the prize, permitting them individually to caress and cup her breasts, to trace the curves of her back and her naked ass, and to press her roughly to the wall. She explains the rules of the fight and grabs both cocks because she has decided they are going to start the fight with raging hard-ons.

The fight engages. Round one ends with a submission, and she directs the wrestler who tapped out to lay on his back and prepare to lick the winner’s foot. One round has ended. More will come. Maybe four more. Maybe eight more. The first to win five times is the champion, and the champion will take her on the mat while the loser looks on. But for now, after each round, she decides the loser’s punishments or the winner’s rewards. She plays with the rules as she sees fit because both combatants have agreed to surrender their consent to her for the evening. She directs that the next round is going to include body strikes because the first wasn’t quite violent enough for her liking. After that, they’re going to fight naked. One wrestler won all the first three rounds, so she dictates that before the fourth, he has to endure 60 seconds of gut punishment from his opponent before the round commences. Eventually a champion emerges and the champion will enjoy his spoils. Spoils provided by the royalty that directed the evening’s fun.

Two naked women locked in a no-rules catfight while their partners watch in amazed appreciation-that’s a variation of this. Two guys hose down the back yard, so their match will result in a mixture of blood, dirt and grass clippngs peppering the skin of each combatant, while their boyfriends watch from the patio-that’s another. Any scenario that involves competitive action for the entertainment of a privileged audience can fit within this broad and fascinating concept.